How to make decisions that seem complex be easy and right

How do I make difficult decisions?

To make hard decisions, you have to prioritize well and think about the future you want. Sometimes forward-thinking means you have to sacrifice something, usually comfort. In any case, a trade-off occurs in the decision-making process; that’s what makes complex decisions challenging.

Following the status quo is not you making tough decisions. Nor is keeping up with appearances and status. If you prioritize shallow things, then that is what will dominate your choices. It doesn’t matter how good you think you are; nobody can make time for everything.

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How can I quickly make the right decision?

You have to streamline a basic standard for how you solve problems. Right now, you are probably already doing that, except in the wrong way. In other words, the lens you are viewing your problems through is hard for you to read. So you may be taking the path of least resistance.

The truth should be your best friend. I’m not trying to sound cliche, but the truth is the anchor we all need. Here is how I advise you to continue making a problem-solving framework.

How can I get better at rational decision making?

One of the best ways to improve your decision-making skills is to study decision theory and cognitive psychology. This area of research explores how humans make choices and can help you understand the factors that influence your decision-making process.

Another way to improve your decision-making skills is to practice mindfulness and meditation. Mindfulness involves paying attention to the present moment without judgment and can help you become more aware of your thoughts and feelings. Meditation can also help you focus and increase your awareness, which can be helpful when making decisions.

Finally, engaging in thoughtful self-reflection can also be beneficial for improving your decision-making skills. Taking the time to reflect on why you make confident choices can help you better understand yourself and your decision-making process. This can allow you to make more rational decisions in the future.

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How Can I stop making impulsive decisions?

The first step is to identify the situations in which you are most likely to make impulsive decisions. Maybe it’s when you’re feeling stressed out, when you’re bored, or when you’re around people who tend to influence you negatively.

Once you know what your triggers are, you can start to put some strategies in place to help you resist temptation. Methods like the following:


It can be challenging to decide when there are no clear right or wrong answers in front of you. This is why it’s essential always to consider the following factors:

-What do I want out of this?

-What are my options?

-How will each option affect me and those around me?

Keep these three questions at the forefront, and you’ll find that making decisions becomes much more manageable.

Originally published at on March 5, 2022.



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